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EDIT: Hey ya’ll my apologies, truly, but the whole thing of me being sporadically online from time to time these last few months, extended a bit long from the end of Summer than I expected 😰. Not my intention if it feels as though I’m ignoring anyone, or not getting back to anyone.

Work and life have been insane and very busy; and with that it’s been very difficult to keep up with communicating to all the people I know, across all the platforms where I am present. Moving into 2024 I’m going to do my best to improve on this, especially with those I’ve discussed matches with or where scheduling a meet up has been brought up. 💪

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OLD: Short little check-in. Haven’t been fully online here for a while, despite logging on here and there. Been a crazy year, hectic spring and summer, but I’m getting back on throughout this week in order to properly catch up on replies, messages and everything
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Another little side “project” I’m going to be starting this week, is creating a “catalogue” or yellow pages I suppose? 🤔

This would be for literally anyone and everyone I’ve interacted with, met with, plan to meet with, keep saying I’m planning to met with, etc etc..
I’m notoriously bad at remembering or keeping up with people and the more and more that get added over the years, the more I definitely forget or neglect.

So I’m going to organize out some sort of Google Sheets or Excel spreadsheet format. In which all names, contact information, social media or where we’ve spoken, location and interest can all be compiled.

It shall have further details that I’ll learn to make filterable, like have we met before or are we still planning to meet, we looking to wrestle, hangout or just be sexy, along with some mentioned interests or ideas of what the individual likes, etc etc..

Hopefully this way, I can remain much more organized on who I’m communicating with and who I’m planning to meet. If we have chatted in the past about meeting up, but I haven’t spoken in a little while, please let me know so I for sure remember your stuff ❤️

EDIT 07/21/23 - - - - - - - - - - - - -

Just so everyone is aware. If we have met before, you are on my favorites, or I’m on your’s, more than likely we’re on the list. If we’ve spoken about meeting up, and I’ll be checking back on even older messages, you’ll likely be on the list. This is more so for my own personal organization, plus too I’m adding all sorts of neat little filters and stuff 😝

LEGIT WARNING:
This has already been stated before all over the place, but seriously people, PLEASE, if Twitter is your main or only social media, find a backup. I know that a lot of people use Twitter as an outside platform, a way to meet up with other wrestlers or to keep up-to-date or in touch with friends and fellow wrestlers. Please, have a backup, don’t lose those connections.

We knew that massive layoffs were being done throughout the company, with insane numbers being let go. But after the ‘ultimatum’ that was sent out to remaining employees, needing to ‘work hard’ and do 60-80 hr weeks, or take a 3-month severance and leave..reports are saying upwards of 75% of that remaining workforce is accepting that offer. Unless things change, in the coming days/weeks, Twitter May legit only have 10-20% of its original workforce to keep it afloat.

Unless massive change is done and quickly, this platform is legitimately going to crumble and implode. Again, please have a backup, or find out the contacts or social medias of close friends 🙏

EDIT:
I honestly didn’t plan for this. I genuinely just use Twitter as another wrestling platform and form of communicate with a few guys exclusively over there. I also knew others do the same. So wanted to post a reminder while laying out some of the information we knew as the public. Again. Precautionary.

Not sure why simply stating things that are known, turns things sore for people who have no involvement in any of it. Never mentioned politics, never called out any groups nor specific individuals. Yet some people seem genuinely butthurt over this, depressing and sad. 😓

Guys. Thank you all for you concern this weekend.

I just managed to speak with this friend’s family. Truthfully, this was actually the person I had been dating for the past 5 years.

Unfortunately, Monday night they believe, he passed away in his sleep. They think it was possibly COVID. But it was sudden and he seemed fine beforehand. They found him in his apartment last night. They’ll be getting services set up tomorrow..

He was incredible and wonderful. Even though we were off and on when it came to dating seriously. He was ultimately my closest and best friend these past few years.

My heart is beyond broken at the moment, still processing it heavily. But I do appreciate the time I did have with him, and will cherish and think about him forever and always. No matter what.

UPDATE: Will be going to my boyfriend’s viewing this coming Friday. His family ultimately cremated him today.

My last memory with him was having a wonderful dinner out and rangling his friend’s cat into a crate to bring home. I got 5.5 great years with him. I will never forget him, ever.

EDIT: 4 people are assholes here. Glad your anonymous 😑

Dude thinks I’m rude, well alright then, let’s be rude. I guess having a conversation and answering a question was rude. All because I didn’t respond to the “compliment”.

Needed the praise I guess? 🤷‍♀️ Have never spoken to him before, but he decided all this within a day or two.

Whole thing started with um saying “..now your very hot and love your hot body handsome can we wrestle together handsome..” (word for word, same sentence structure and no punctuation)

I responded “..yeah, if you’re ever nearby one another I’d be down..” As he is a new account and up in Maine, while I’m in Pennsylvania. He then response “..you cant take compliments..”

So then I’m confused, and asked “..didn’t you just ask if you wanted to wrestle? I was answering your question..” then you can see what follows.

You know what, sure, let’s be “rude” from now on. Cause honestly I am tired for being polite, so let’s just do what I’m great at. Once fed up, just being as blunt as possible. Best of luck everyone 👍 (don’t worry, won’t actually, just for assholes)