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Wrestling, My Fetish

Before I start, this is all bout my fetish, the fantasies within my fetish within the bdsm scene, how to get started plus many other bits an pieces bout it all. All of which is from my opinion/thoughts, so please don’t jump your guns if by your opinion I have got stuff wrong, its how I see it all so if you start saying shit etc please fuck off, for the rest of you who I hope will enjoy reading bout my fetish please leave a comment on what you think, cheers, Phil

(P.S. this is info/opinion from me whilst I’ve wrestled girl friends & guys in both a kink/bedroom dynamic and in competition tournaments around the UK)

PRO-LOQUE
Q&A - How did i get into my fetish for wrestling? Well in the uk back in the 90's on analog TV channel 4 use to show WWF WRESTING now WWE. And i can remember watchin Lita wrestling Trish in a Bra & Panties match, as i was watching them wrestle and strip each other....i felt something strange happening down below in my trousers lol, i liked the feeling and this was before i knew what masturbation was as a kid. But having had free internet range i started google image searching of naked women wrestling etc and once i learnt of other stuff my mind exploded with ideas and so always wanted to have a go with doing wrestling with women and making it erotic and fun and so thats how my fetish for wrestling began :D

The many aspects and subjects of Wrestling in BDSM World

Throughout my time both in my vanilla and fetish lives when I have come across women who I have shown a true interest in and got chatting to them and getting ont the subjects of fave fetish’s or what turns each other on etc I have told them that wrestling is my thing and asked whether they’ve ever had an interest in it, most are open to it however almost all of them see it an activity where they think that they’ll get injured quite badly in and would not find it fun or at least enjoy it.

To that I say, wrestling is an amazingly fun activity that can implement all factors of the bdsm lifestyle into wrestling. For example as seen below

Bondage & Discipline (BD) = Bondage wrestling can be two people both with wrist and ankle cuffs with two ropes each and their aim is to hogtie each other, loser is the one that is hogtied. Wrestling holds could and are used as disciplinary actions towards subs/slaves if they are being bratty, naughty etc.
Dominance & Submission (DS) = Within the fantasy style of wrestling (of which I shall go into further detail later, domination wrestling is quite big with pro dommes. Submission or the word submission when said in wrestling is the key to submission/competitive wrestling, switches within the style enjoy this within the wrestling scene as a switch couple can wrestle and agree that the winner at the end will be the dom for the day or for however long the couple have agreed to.
Sadism & Masochism (SD) = Again these two characteristics of the BDSM world are very important in wrestling, sadism, depending on the wrestling scenario, whether it be domination wrestling by a pro dome to a male sub, the pro dome can humiliate and degrade the sub by taunting to him that he’s being beaten by a woman etc (Not in any way being sexist here but it humiliates some guys as people like Raven66 Believe that man is always more superior to women, something I whole heartedly do not believe in). Masochism, although like I said in the beginning some girls do not wish to get hurt by taking part in wrestling activity it can be a huge part of it from spankings in certain holds to body and head scissors, a lot of wrestling does involve pain but not to the point that you’re going to be leaving someone with a broken bone (like Raven66 talks about a lot)

Ok so wrestling as a whole, its history types/genres etc.

A short history lesson on Wrestling

Wrestling has been around for hundreds upon thousands of years really since man learnt how to fight hand to hand rather than picking something up and throwing it at the neighbouring cave man village, and since then it has grown, I commonly have known it from Greek history as it was then and still is now a sport in the Olympics, and has taken various twists and turns throughout its time. To the point where we are today with all sorts of different genres/types/styles of wrestling;

Competitive = Between two people, with the aim of pinning their opponent’s shoulders to the floor for a pre-determined time normally 3seconds but can be 5 or 10 seconds or by using a submission hold and the opponent calling “I Submit” or Tapping out. Using submission holds, moves and pins in a very competitive manner this normally being fast, agile and painful and full on. Competive wrestling uses many of the techniques and skills seen in Greco-Roman and Freestyle wrestling.
Semi-Competitive = Semi-Comp wrestling is pretty much the same as comp wrestling however slightly different as there’s the element of having fun at the same time and not trying your hardest to pin or make your opponent submit
Pro = Professional wrestling is considered a non-competitive sport. Most matches are scripted, with an emphasis on entertainment as well as athletics. Early professional wrestling bouts were often performed at traveling sideshows to entertain the public. Today, professional wrestling is a highly popular form of entertainment televised worldwide. Professional wrestling rules are much more lenient than any other type of wrestling.
Erotic = Erotic wrestling can be pro/comp/semi-comp or fantasy or all of them really, it could be done nude, in oil, topless. There are many different areas of erotic wrestling from just your semi competitive topless wrestling to your all out mixed or same sex nude sexfight wrestling where the aim is to be the last one to orgasm or the one that orgasms the least to be the winner. It can be done in sensual attires from garter belts, stocking, suspenders, bra and panties or lycra/spandex super heroine outfits that hug the body and show off all the fantastic curves in the right places.
Fantasy = Fantasy wrestling is commonly seen from the pro dommes in giving their subs a domination wrestling match where the sub is put into numerous holds and pins and the sub then tries best to escape from them. Often without much luck. Other fantasy wrestling can involve many of the types/genres and styles here for example an erotic semi-competitive fantasy wrestling match where a man vs a woman are dressed up in lycra super heroine’s acting in a roleplay scenario/scene/story to which one is evil and one is good i.e. cat woman vs superman, both are role playing, they come together to try and defeat each other and they know each others weaknesses maybe their sexual assets to the both of them and so a very heated wrestling starts and throughout the match they begin to strip each other and half way through as they are both nude decide to try and weaken each other via trying to make the other either orgasm first or orgasm the most.
Freestyle = Freestyle wrestling is one of the wrestling techniques performed at the Olympic level. Modern freestyle wrestling originated in the United States and Great Britain. This form of wrestling has fewer restrictions than other types of wrestling techniques at the international level. These techniques include using the legs to trip or otherwise subdue an opponent. An exception to using the legs in freestyle wrestling is the scissor-hold.
Greco-Roman = Greco-Roman wrestling is another wrestling type permitted at the Olympic level. Greco-Roman wrestling is unique in that using the legs to hold, subdue, or even grabbing below the waist is prohibited. Contrary to popular belief, the term Greco-Roman in
wrestling was not popularized until the 19th century.

Most if not all of the above styles can be done in all sorts of attires and can be also done in wet and messy (WAM) scenes like baby oil, mud, custard, chocolate, jello etc.
Now who’s interested in getting started on the scene?

Getting started

Novices Intro
Safety
Attire
Background Research
Match
Analyse, Assess & Improve
Experimenting

Novices Intro

“Oh you’ve never tried it/done it before, well its great fun, let me explain.”
For those of you who are female interested in wrestling, I first ask you have you ever been in a catfight? Yes – well what did you do in it? Hair pulling, punching/slapping, did you get the girl into a school girl pin? Yes – well if you’re starting out in wrestling try your best to get your opponent into a school girl pin as it is one of the most basic wrestling pins out there.

If no yet still got an interest, how bout starting with trying to a struggle/roll around play fight over dominance with a switch/sub/slave again trying to get your opponent or partner in a school girl pin (http://www.dww.at/dww/halloffame/Uploads/img0006995… as demonstrated here.

Men if like me you got interested through such things as watching WWE divas wrestling (WWF when I got interested in the whole wrestling scene) Try it what I have said above with a complete female novice with a girl friend or a play partner/fuck buddy. If you’ve got brothers/sisters and you remember play fighting when re-enacting scenes or matches from WWE but always play it safe no big moves etc unless you’re a fully trained pro wrestler etc.

Safety

Safety is always important within the BDSM world but needs to be very much safe in wrestling to fully enjoy it.
Before having a wrestle with your partner, sub/dom etc, ground rules for the match should be set, like the time limit for the match, the amount of seconds for a submission pin (3/5 or 10secs) along with maybe best of so many pin falls/submissions, what moves/holds/pins won’t be used, stuff like no biting, no spitting, no kicking, no punching etc. A safe word should always be set for if the opponent cannot access the mat for a tap out, ideas here the usual BDSM traffic light system, Green = fine no problems carry on, Amber = Tone it down but you can carry on, Red = Stop immediately, or the calling of “Submit” or “I submit” and the match starts again, etc.
Setting/arena
The best thing to use as a like wrestling mat in my opinion is either a double bed or a double bed mattress but so long as you have some sort of like matting, cushioning laid down in a sensible area size of bout 2X2m squared then you should be fine, of course if you’re doing a wet’n’messy wrestling match things such as inflatable paddling/swimming pools are perfect, plastic/tarpaulin sheeting is ideal, you can also purchase pvc/latex/rubber bed sheets from particular site for such activities, but again put some padding down underneath the wam wrestling area.

Warming up

Before having a match, always do a warm up, doesn’t need to be serious or anything just a couple of stretches, like the ham string, calf muscles, biceps and triceps. The amount of people I’ve known through other activities who have injured themselves through not doing any such warm up is stupid and is very important in wrestling as it takes only a slight difference in a move weight wise or position wise or someone to be a tad too enthusiastic to cause an injury whether that be a pulled muscle or a dislocated joint of which dislocated and broken joints/bones in my opinion should never happen in wrestling anyway as that is not the point in wrestling although pain is a big factor in it.
If injury or blood occurs anywhere in the match (unless pre-arranged in the match rules before hand i.e. two people with blood fetishes) the match immediately stops and first aid should be given, blood can occur at any point in the match it only takes a slight knock to the nose that could cause a nose bleed and again dependant on your health you should be advised as to what you can and can’t do by your doctor, for example I myself am on medication known as warfarin that thins the blood, I have no problem with continuing on in my fetish of wrestling, I just have to watch my limits and be slightly careful of banging my head due to such things as internal bleeding but as I have said above if your ring/arena is securely padded out then there should be no problems at all. On the health issues side of life though, both participants should inform each other before hand of each others health issues as its not very inspiring in the other person is something does happen and then that person having to call for emergency help and maybe depending on the person having to explain to the whole story etc to paramedics as to what happened, why, when etc, to some it can be very embarrassing and you may never get to wrestle with that same person again.
In terms of jewellery, watches and piercings, they should all really be removed to prevent serious injury to each other, again all it takes is a miss placed knock to the face and you could have caused a piercing to tear out, leaving blood spewing out all over the place, with what could quite possibly be a serious injury. It may sound all H&S an all but if you want to have fun wrestling without the risk of injury then set up well before hand, it may seem a lot here but in real time it doesn’t take long at all to sort out.

Attire

What you going to wear then aye? Well in wrestling you can wear whatever you feel comfy wrestling in. You could be fully clothed or in a bikini or even in your birthday suit ;)
Materials and clothing that I like to wrestle others along with myself in are spandex, lycra, rubber, latex, pvc, neoprene…generally anything that’s shiny and skin tight that shows off all the right curves in the right places is amazing to wear as it allows the wrestling to be a whole lot more sensual, erotic and fun. Clothing like bikinis, single piece swim suits, latex/leather/rubber/pvc etc catsuits. Super heroine outfits and other role play uniforms are fantastic to wrestle in as most are made from lycra/spandex/silk and satin materials of which all make for a very sensuous wrestling experience.
If you’re two women wrestling you may have a fetish for 1950’s clothing and may wish to dress up in retro bra, panties, stockings, garter belts and suspenders like in retro 1950’s catfight films, lingerie and underwear are fantastic to wrestle in as well, an idea may be to wrestle with some cheap slutty/tarty clothes that don’t mind about being ripped to shreds if in a match where you’re stripping each other as wrestling then brings out the side plate of rough sex and maybe some hair pulling with some hardcore trash talking that in all makes the experience ever so much more horny. As a same sex/mixed couple you may decide to have a strip sex wrestling match where both opponents aims are to strip each other nude in the first two rounds and then in the final ½ rounds pin them whilst taking sexual advantage of them due to a particular hold you have them in for example a head scissors that allows for you to masturbate them to orgasm (again as at the beginning wrestling imports so many ideas etc from bdsm, for which at the point their opponent is about to cum, the person masturbating them may tell them to ask for permission to cum, here of course in the denial side of having an orgasm). If you’re wam wrestling in oil, lube, jello etc, nude is always fantastic as again it makes for a very sensual, erotic and fun wrestle but also latex/rubber/leather/pvc catsuits are also fantastic for wrestling in as they slip ‘n’ slide about very easily and again can be very erotic, sensual and fun. Another attire of which is another fetish in its own right is down clothing like down jackets etc, wrestling in down clothing can be so fun but also hot and sweaty workout. Other items of clothing that may be of ideal use are jodhpurs or lycra/spandex sports wear like cycling wear or running gear. Spandex and lycra morph suits are also awesome for wrestling in, as the lycra/spandex is great to touch and feel so dependent on the match scene etc, groping a tit through lycra/spandex can be os so erotic and sensuous turn on. So long as you wear what you feel comfortable in then there should be no problems.

Before we get onto the match do your homework, research the different sorts of pins, moves, holds, locks etc. Check out wrestling videos on youtube, type in wrestling holds, pins etc on google, try them out with girl friends, see if there’s any local combat/wrestling clubs or groups local to you. Look into the techniques and skills used by wrestlers to enable them to escape from holds/pins etc. What skills or sports do you think may help you, gymnastics, yoga, martial arts, yes they can all help, have a go. “Done your homework?” “Yes” “Now you’re ready to wrestle”

Finally we’ve reached the point to where we are ready to wrestle, rules have been set in place, the aims of the match are for both opponents to pin one another via a school girl pin in a best out of 3 pin fall strip wrestling sex match, pin time of 3seconds. Attire is slutty wear for the woman and business suit for the guy, with the end result being both opponents nude, winner doing as they please to the loser. Hair pulling, face slapping, sexual techniques and submission holds allowed. No kicking/punching/spitting/biting allowed. How are you both going to start, standing up facing each other or kneeling facing each other on the ring/arena that you have laid out of two double bed mattresses put together surrounded by duvets, pillows, sleeping bags. You decide on kneeling facing one another, when you’re both ready you mark the start with a playful ding, ding, ding. Its off and with the first to take the other down you both start rolling around struggling for over all dominance over the other whilst trying to strip as much off of each other at the same time. For the first pin the guy comes out full of his power and dominance he over powers his switch partner and tells her what he’s going to do to her when he wins, trash talking all the way through the match towards each other. Back to the start of both facing each other kneeling of which at this point both are topless. Again they sound the bell and it starts over again this time the woman is ready for the guy as she has learnt her lesson and immediately gets him into a head scissor, he tries to escape but fails, whilst he is trying to escape, she strips the rest of him naked, and then applies the pressure to his head in her deathly head scissors, he has to tap and so does. Both are equal now, so its all to win for now, again they setup in the positions and start this final round goes on for some time before a clear winner emerges. The woman has finally school girl pinned her male partner and so starts humiliating and degrading her puny male opponent by telling him what she has in store for him. He is to be a cuckold and to watch his switch wife being taken by a bigger man than he is, she also fucks him with a strap-on. The end, that is a story or scenario of how a wrestling match in the fetish scene could turn out, and on both party sides, they will have enjoyed it hugely.

Now that they’ve had their first match and enjoyed it soo much, as for the male he wants his revenge. This can only be done by assessing, analysing and improving on the techniques and skills they have used in the match, what went well? What didn’t go well? How did she/he manage to do this or get me into that hold/pin? Continually ask yourself these questions and then ask yourself how can you improve on your technique, skill and performance for next time, well practice makes perfect, go back to your research, have you found a club or group, “No” how bout a coach or a close friend/fuck buddy or even your wife, you shall only get better if you try new things like holds in different ways etc, try looking outside the box. How can you escape from such holds when applied to you. Now coming onto Experimenting, ask yourself will this work, what happens if I add this hold to this hold, can I combine these things together, did this work, did that work, never stop analysing your skill and technique as you shall become a better wrestler in all aspects and shall be able to go up against near on anyone whatever their shape, size and strength.

Carrying on from analysing etc in experimenting, why not experiment with different scenes or rings/arenas like trampolines as then you can do bit more harder high flying moves more commonly seen in pro wrestling such as suplexes and body slams etc. If sexual arousal is a big thing to you in wrestling then why not use some sex toys for example if as a guy you’re wrestling a woman nude and you manage to get them in a matchbook pin then you may well use a big dildo/vibrator on them. Or if you’re a lesbian couple then why not do your own Ultimate Surrender (US) styled wrestling match as in loser gets fucked with a strap-on. Try mixing and matching bits and pieces around like I said at the beginning how bout trying bondage wrestling whilst nude, or doing a tag team sex wrestling match or even if you’re wrestling as a mixed couple have a ref that can be used to abuse the one in the hold/pin for example if a guy has got his female opponent in a ceiling hold then the male could ask the ref to come and eat out the female or even fuck her whilst she’s in the particular submission hold. What bout a two on one wrestling match or having to wrestle a tranny etc the list of endless wrestling possibilities goes on and on so long as you have an enthusiastic and open imagination.

Women in wrestling (A lesson for Raven66)
Yes I maybe a dom/master but I respect all women whether they are a sub/slave/dom/mistress etc, yes I do not believe that anyone can just start bossing me around as their personal bitch, nor do I do that to anyone else, I treat all women with kindness and respect, yes I maybe slightly sexist but in a jokingly way not in a serious way. As for in wrestling women are to be honest generally a lot better than men as they’ll have participated in activities such as gymnastics as a young age and so therefore have learnt to become very flexible and so can get out of holds/pins etc with very much ease or turn the tables on you very fast with little effort. Just because you’re I big fat ugly guy with anger management issues trying to give orders to every woman will never get you far in life. As respect, kindness, discipline and manners are key to having any sort of relationship with anyone let alone women. Oh and like I have explained to you many times, why should you feel humiliated by a woman if they beat you in a match, as all it does is show whos the better skilled wrestler. (This shall be added with more lessons on the respect towards women that you should have towards them Raven)

The fantasies that surround my wrestling fetish include any skin tight clothing with dedication going to metallic hot pants and tank tops etc. male vs female catfighting. WaM wrestling, Milf and tranny wrestling both MtF and though I’m more towards FtM. Crash mat pro wrestling erotic styled matches. Putting slaves and sub in their places by wrestling them to submission.

Me, wrestling and the future

Well me and my wrestling, in the future, I hope to see myself heading up the fetish wrestling scene in the South West of the UK – I already have setup my own group for it (https://fetlife.com/groups/35233) please join if you’re interested in any aspects that the wrestling scene can offer you, though please be from the UK or if you visit regularly the UK from around Europe. I also have plans for setting up my own Wrestling Porno production company, but will need help with it from many, would like to find some female slaves interested in wrestling first. Material that shall be in my company shall be stuff like Tranny wrestling in a similar style to US and Matrock production companies as theres no sort of tranny wrestling material out there. Other plans include setting up my own fetish wrestling party/scene/club etc through the group on fetlife.

I hope that this info on the insight to my fetish has been interesting and helpful to you, if you wish me to talk bout anything else on the wrestling side of life or scene within the fetish and bdsm world, please don’t hesitate to ask me.

If you’re interested in learning more or would like personal one to one sessions/lessons on wrestling/catfighting/sexfighting, I’ll happily offer my service to you, please don’t hesitate to contact me either for lessons or if you want a wrestle, would luv to wrestle with you (Women only 18-50 all shapes/sizes etc, sorry guys, explanation at the top) My contact details are on my fetlife blurb.

Happy wrestling to you all <3 Phil xxx

Wrestling Ad

I’m currently seeking a slave/sub to teach to wrestle for then to be able to go out and wrestle other women for my enjoyment, your prize for winning shall be a treat from me plus the decided prize before the match with other women, your punishment for losing, again the prize or punishment of the winner – loser in the match, plus a punishment from me, that shall be determine as and when I decide it to be suitable. The ideal candidate shall be Female 18-50 sub/slave, very big pain slut i.e 110% into receiving pain as I have some extreme fetishes such as cunt kicking/punching/clawing/spanking etc, very open minded, good laugh and good fun. The interview shall be a wrestling match, where you can decide the rules. Note, you will be collared if you pass and shall be known as my personal sex wrestling doll/toy. If interested please contact me on here or via my msn etc.

Switches/Dommes if you’re interested in me or having any such relationship with me then, you shall need to build up a relationship with me before hand. Once this is done, if you carry on to want to meet or have a relationship if you wish at all in this relationship for me to switch or sub, it shall take a long term relationship/commitment to gain my trust and friendship, their after I shall request a wrestling match with you, and if you win then and only then shall I maybe switch/sub to you, but all of this depends on the relationship we strike up between each other