SecretComebackAccount's blog

Happy New Year, Everyone!

I wanted to get some thoughts out of my head and onto (figurative) paper for 2023 and one concerns CATFISHING and Meetfighters!

I think most would agree Meetfighters has a particularly welcoming format for catfish due to most men/women on the site being discreet due to the nature of the fetish being acceptable in mainstream society; this allows catfish to use this as a veil when interacting with others.

This, coupled with possible scarcity of potential opponents in certain areas (or so many opponents in populated areas), sometimes makes us vulnerable to falling for the guise of catfish within our own community due to 'really really wanting him/her to be real'.

So, what do we do about it? Well, if someone is set out to dupe you online, there are some "red flags" that we can take into account, even before messaging the potential opponent!

I have created a rubric of sorts that you can utilize with some common questions/points of contention when trying to uncover typical catfish behavior online. This will allow you to tally up points for the PRO and the CON of someone being a potential catfish and maybe sway you into making a better judgement about a new account in your area, or even one of those accounts with one opponent listed in the community!

Please let me know your thoughts! (Also, in my experience I am very wary of new accounts so I would suggest anyone wait a week or two to see what becomes of a new account in general)

The Potential Catfish:

Has pictures posted in the last 30 days,
offers face pic upon request if not posted

Has Bio completely filled out, with detailed info
about what they are looking for

Cannot host and does not have alternatives listed,
"Just looking for now"

Multiple locations listed in metropolitan areas

When messaged, it is hard to set up a time and place
in the near future

These are just a couple of points I use for myself, but please list more in the comments!

https://www.instagram.com/ruffwrestler/

I plan on posting more content here like matches that I can't post on Meetfighters due to restrictions, so please feel free to add me and say hello!

https://www.watchfighters.com/posts/halloween_muscle_2021-_part_1_the_dungeon-ygdcvefx

Full video of the ab bashing in The Dungeon is now up on Watchfighters! Enjoy!